Menstrual
Calendar: Charting the Signs of Fertility
By Marie Zenack
Charting the signs of your menstrual cycle is a good way to keep
in touch with your body, your feelings, and your health. It is also
a good way to predict your days of menstruation in advance, even
if your menstrual cycles are irregular, and to know the most fertile
times if you are hoping to conceive.
Cervical Mucus
The sign that is easiest
to observe is the cervical mucus, since it is noticed in the course
of daily activity. Fertile type mucus is produced by the cervix
during the days when the ova are maturing and preparing for ovulation.
This mucus is not only an indicator of fertility, it is essential
for fertility. Cervical mucus nourishes the sperm, protects them
from the natural acidity of the vagina, and guides them toward the
ovum. Following is a simple way to observe and chart your fertile
type mucus.
Pay attention to how
you feel as you go about your daily activities. Just as you have
learned to notice a certain wetness at menstruation, you will begin
to notice a second wet time, but later in the cycle, and without
bleeding. The second wet time is caused by your fertile type mucus.
Each time you go to the
bathroom, wipe with toilet paper both before and after you use the
toilet, noticing: a) the sensation you feel as you wipe with toilet
paper, b) what is on the toilet paper. Chart what you see and what
you feel in any way that makes sense to you.
1) Menstruation: mark
the days of bleeding in some way, such as coloring the calendar
day red.
2) Nothing: if you don't
see or feel anything outside your vagina, you can leave the calendar
blank on those days.
3) Something: but if
you see or feel something - anything - such as pasty or sticky mucus,
or a feeling of wetness - draw something, such as a raindrop, on
these days.
4) Slippery something:
If the pasty or sticky mucus turns to slippery mucus or a slippery
feeling, color the raindrop dark to indicate the slippery wetness.
After a few slippery
wet days, the mucus may disappear or return to sticky or pasty.
When it does, begin to count the days until menstruation arrives.
In a normal fertile cycle, the time between the last day of slippery
mucus or slippery feeling and the next menstruation is between 11-16
days. You will become quite accurate about your predictions after
you chart for about three cycles.
The mucus is your most
fertile time, since fertile type is produced during the days leading
up to and including ovulation. If you are trying to conceive, use
the wet, slippery days for sexual relations. But don't try to use
this information for birth control unless you seek out a qualified
teacher of fertility awareness or natural family planning.
When the fertile
mucus is present, we are under the influence of the hormone estrogen.
We may feel courageous and loving. Men who bored us last week may
suddenly appear interesting and attractive. Like Mother Earth in
her rainy season, we are full of potential. We may also be interested
in sexual activity. These emotions and reactions are caused by the
hormone estrogen, which is getting us ready to have a baby, whether
or not we want one! These hormonal swings are a predictable part
of our cycle that must be safely navigated by all women in their
reproductive years.
After ovulation, under
the influence of the hormone progesterone, we may feel somewhat
deflated compared to our wet, fertile time. Like Mother Earth in
her dry time, we may feel quiet, with less energy. When menstrual
bleeding begins, both estrogen and progesterone are at low levels.
We may feel sensitive, solitary, or inward. Getting to know the
feelings that go along with your hormonal cycle can give you a new
and sensitive relationship with yourself.
Dark red menstruation
for about three days probably indicates that hormones are high enough
to build a good uterine lining and nourish a fetus in the event
of conception. However, more than three days of menstruation can
be exhausting. If your bleeding is excessive, try drinking raspberry
leaf tea on a regular basis.
Three to five days of
wet, slippery mucus 11-14 days before the next menstruation is a
probable indicator of normal ovulation and a fertile cycle. Cycles
are often 28-30 days from the first day of bleeding to the first
day of the bleeding of the next menstruation. However, irregular
cycles do not indicate infertility. If the time between the last
day of slippery mucus and the next menstruation is 11-16 days, the
cycle is probably fertile. Even if one cycle is not fertile, the
next may well be fertile. Much depends on the stress we may be feeling.
Keeping a chart allows us to keep all things in perspective, and
feel our own harmony with all the cycles of nature.
Basal Body Temperature
If you are not sure you
are ovulating, you can take your temperature. The body's resting
temperature increases four-tenths of a degree Fahrenheit or two-tenths
of a degree Centigrade under the influence of progesterone at ovulation.
Observing this sign involves taking your temperature at the same
time each morning before rising. (This is not as hard as it sounds.
It takes less than two minutes and you can go back to sleep if you
want.)
To observe your temperature
rise, buy a BD brand digital basal thermometer. This brand will
give you a consistent and accurate reading. Other high quality brands
of digital basal thermometers are also probably accurate, but have
not been tested for fertility awareness. Make sure the battery is
good. (You can replace it.) An ordinary clinical thermometer is
not accurate enough for fertility awareness. Nor is the "ear
thermometer" (tympanic thermometer).
Take your temperature
every day immediately upon waking, before 7:30 a.m. The body's rhythms
(circadian rhythms) fluctuate over a 24-hour period. Your temperature
is lowest in the early morning and highest in the afternoon. Fluctuations
are greater after 7:30 a.m. If you go to bed before midnight and
wake up before 7:30 a.m., you will get the clearest temperature
readings.
If it is not convenient
to take your temperature immediately upon waking, you may take it
during light morning activity. For example, if you need to go to
the bathroom, you may take your temperature while getting up and
using the toilet. But be consistent about the circumstances under
which you take your temperature. If you take it during light morning
activity, take it that way every morning. Don't take it sometimes
before getting up and at other times during light morning activity.
If you have sexual relations, take your temperature before.
Many women find that
the digital thermometers require such a short time to use that it
is easy to take their temperature before getting up. Take your temperature
by mouth. Under arm and ear temperatures are not accurate enough
for family planning purposes. The thermometer will beep softly several
times before beginning to beep slightly louder and repeatedly. Keep
the thermometer under your tongue until the louder, repeated beeps
begin. You can read and chart your temperature as soon as is convenient
after taking it. Your thermometer has a recall button that allows
you to read the last temperature taken. Be sure to wash your thermometer
after each use.
Your Temperature Graph
Put a dot on a graph
on the spot corresponding to each day's temperature. Join the temperature
dots of consecutive days. If you do not take your temperature one
day, do not join the dots across that day. Also write out the temperature
numerically, to guard against errors in graphing.
Interpreting Your Chart
1) Breathe and relax.
Study your chart.
2) Can you find six low
temperatures during the fertile mucus days of your cycle? (You can
chart your mucus and menstruation on the same graph paper.)
3) Draw a horizontal
line at the highest of the six low temperatures. This is your low
temperature line.
4) Draw another horizontal
line four-tenths of a degree F. or two-tenths of a degree C. above
your low temperature line. This is your full thermal shift line.
5) Can you find three
high temperatures after the low temperatures? All of the high temperatures
must be above the low temperature line. At least the third high
temperature must be at or above the full thermal shift line.
6) This temperature pattern
of low and high temperatures is called a biphasic pattern with a
full thermal shift. A biphasic pattern with a full thermal shift
confirms that you really did ovulate. A smaller, but sustained temperature
rise also probably indicates ovulation.
If you are hoping to
become pregnant, please pay close attention to nutrition. Look for
unprocessed foods grown without chemicals. Exercise in moderation.
Get plenty of rest. Avoid stress. Think happy thoughts. Pray for
the child you desire, and begin sending your child love, now. Heal
any hurtful feelings between you and your mate, and between you
both and your parents. Your mate should avoid hot shower or baths
and tight clothing, both of which lower sperm count.To increase
your chances of conception, use the wet, slippery days for sexual
relations.
If you have observed
a biphasic pattern with a full thermal shift, and it is now 18 days
since your last day of slippery, wet mucus, and menstruation has
not arrived, you may feel confident that you have conceived.
Congratulations and blessings!
Marie Zenack is the author
of an Ebook on how to get pregnant and how to avoid pregnancy with
natural birth control. Marie is a teacher of fertility awareness.
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Marie_Zenack
|